Relationship
a word bugging many of my buddies. You know what, this word has been driving the whole teen crowd insane. I have always pondered about what it actually means. But i have always concluded that its just a complex way to spend your precious time, money and peace of mind. This topic is not out from my spontaneous self but actually provoked by some of my inmates of the fairer sex. My comment on their thoughts and emotions would be
"Exaggeration",
as even we feel the same about them.
My 18 years of coed school life has taken me on a roll, and i have seen many chapters right in front of my eyes with myself in a lead role in some of em'.Actually a relationship is more linked to fame ahead of the emotions associated with them. One would certainly fly high being associated to a "hottie". A relationship is actually induced by the "J" effect and peer pressure. "My best friend has a gf, why not me??"-a most common question ambling in ones mind.Having a gf is an issue, moving around together is an issue, how long we hang up on phone is an issue, how much money the poor guy pours is an issue, and most importantly how much the relationship has proceeded in magnitude is an issue.However i do not emphasize on the magnitude, It all depends from person to person as to what he/she sets as a datum for satisfaction.Basically its the popularity a relationship grabs, which is a matter of pride for the couple, even though they don't speak out loud.Popularity here should not be taken in the wrong sense.But we do come across couples who don't get into such stuff.But this is what i see in public schools in metros where i have spent all my life. Its as simple as that, i would love to tell the world, the whole college, the whole peer group that i am a stupid boyfriend of a witty girlfriend who is instilling stupidity in me, and the fact is that guys like to act obtuse.
Ask me the truth, people are not desperate to get into relationships, but this desperation is being induced somehow.The word has produced musical vibrations in the air. Each and every person wants to experience and discover the truth behind a relationship. They get desperate to know why others are desperate to have a relationship.Once they are into a relationship, they get matured enough and think ten times before ending up in a new one. There is just a lack of maturity.Most importantly a relationship must be treated the way it has to be. One doesn't be too emotive, Come on folks its just another relationship. If you are into a relationship, it doesn't mean that you'll go on to marital status.Decisions at the later part of your life needs a thinking, but linking this to a teeny relationship is the height of immaturity.No use giving a damn about not having one. Take some experienced words, you are better off alone. No use getting exasperated, and showing your frustration .Remember the desperation is equal from both the sides except for the fact the boys accept it{mostly}, and the chics act as if they are gratified being alone.
a word bugging many of my buddies. You know what, this word has been driving the whole teen crowd insane. I have always pondered about what it actually means. But i have always concluded that its just a complex way to spend your precious time, money and peace of mind. This topic is not out from my spontaneous self but actually provoked by some of my inmates of the fairer sex. My comment on their thoughts and emotions would be
"Exaggeration",
as even we feel the same about them.
Chics dwell a wrong notion that boys are always after em'. Each bird has two wings, without which it can't fly.The whole bf-gf chapter is supported by both the sexes no doubt, whatsoever.So there is no point blaming each other of being more desperate to have a relationship. How come there are relationships existing if they were one sided.Being diplomatic , there is no need for icing on the cake, lets accept the fact.Lets not instill any controversy or a heated-debate.We respect your thoughts and expect the same from you.
My 18 years of coed school life has taken me on a roll, and i have seen many chapters right in front of my eyes with myself in a lead role in some of em'.Actually a relationship is more linked to fame ahead of the emotions associated with them. One would certainly fly high being associated to a "hottie". A relationship is actually induced by the "J" effect and peer pressure. "My best friend has a gf, why not me??"-a most common question ambling in ones mind.Having a gf is an issue, moving around together is an issue, how long we hang up on phone is an issue, how much money the poor guy pours is an issue, and most importantly how much the relationship has proceeded in magnitude is an issue.However i do not emphasize on the magnitude, It all depends from person to person as to what he/she sets as a datum for satisfaction.Basically its the popularity a relationship grabs, which is a matter of pride for the couple, even though they don't speak out loud.Popularity here should not be taken in the wrong sense.But we do come across couples who don't get into such stuff.But this is what i see in public schools in metros where i have spent all my life. Its as simple as that, i would love to tell the world, the whole college, the whole peer group that i am a stupid boyfriend of a witty girlfriend who is instilling stupidity in me, and the fact is that guys like to act obtuse.
Ask me the truth, people are not desperate to get into relationships, but this desperation is being induced somehow.The word has produced musical vibrations in the air. Each and every person wants to experience and discover the truth behind a relationship. They get desperate to know why others are desperate to have a relationship.Once they are into a relationship, they get matured enough and think ten times before ending up in a new one. There is just a lack of maturity.Most importantly a relationship must be treated the way it has to be. One doesn't be too emotive, Come on folks its just another relationship. If you are into a relationship, it doesn't mean that you'll go on to marital status.Decisions at the later part of your life needs a thinking, but linking this to a teeny relationship is the height of immaturity.No use giving a damn about not having one. Take some experienced words, you are better off alone. No use getting exasperated, and showing your frustration .Remember the desperation is equal from both the sides except for the fact the boys accept it{mostly}, and the chics act as if they are gratified being alone.
I also share a view that there is absolutely nothing wrong in a relationship.After all even we are humans and we love to love and be loved.Yeah, accept the fact that its stupidity, but there are millions of stupids in this world, don't tell me that this futility is at the last resort. Then why make such a big fuss about something which is kinda happening everywhere. India is a culture which dwells love and emotions, then why make a fuss about it. The attitude needs a change.A relationship is no big deal mind you. Its in the air, just inhale it and exhale, no need to think before you breathe. Some things happen with us just for the sake of it. If a relationship is foolish, the world is full of fools.
gimme a break, wait a second, did i call myself a fool??
